Living Life Lip-less

It wasn’t long ago that I recognized something about myself: I have no lips. That’s right, I’m lip-less. One would think I’d have noticed this a few years ago, but no. Apparently I don’t look in the mirror enough. In fact, I peek as little as possible.

me again 3

See what I mean?

That’s not to say I look hideous. I wouldn’t go THAT far. But when I do stop to look closely at myself, it’s sorta scary. Seems the older I get, the more my lips disappear, along with other pertinent stuff. Bette Davis had it right when she said, “Old age ain’t no place for sissies.”

bette davis

You tell ’em Bette

Anyway, when skin sags, it’s not a pretty sight. So why should I gaze in the mirror more than absolutely necessary? Besides, of course, to verify I’m not sporting any foreign objects hanging from my nose or harboring an errant chin hair or two.

Aging is kind of like the Boston Strangler; it sneaks up and squeezes the youth out of us. One particular joy of getting older is a lack of eyesight. Noticing things I might have in the past now becomes more difficult. This is, however, not all bad.

Albert de Salvo Escorted into Court

The Boston Strangler, Albert DeSalvo

For instance, are you aware that after a certain age eyebrows are a vanishing commodity? That’s because one day they simply disappear. The last time I plucked, they refused to grow back. So these days whenever I try to be presentable, I’ve resorted to penciling in my eyebrows. It’s official. I’m now a certified old lady.

Back to my lips…I’ve realized that I have Irish lips. I’m sure you know what I mean. What Irish person do you know with full lips? I can’t think of one, can you? I’m one-quarter Irish so there you go. But I’m also one-half Portuguese so where are my Sara Sampaio lips?

Sara Sampaio

I suppose the odds were against me. My parents were also lip-less. Looking at old family photos, there we all are, smiling with lips no fuller than a strand of spaghetti. Not even a fettuccine noodle, mind you. I’m talking angel hair pasta here. Do you know how difficult it is to put lipstick on pasta? Needless to say, I do.

my family

Circa 1985. Not a full lip in sight

So the other night I ate a mango. (How’s that for being discursive?) I love mangoes but they don’t return the sentiment. In fact, they make my lips swell. But that didn’t stop me. Two hours afterward, my lips became plump. AH HA! My new mantra was born: Eating a mango a day  keeps thin lips away.

Now don’t get me wrong; I didn’t resemble Angelina Jolie or anything. With her lips on this face I’d look like a Rosy-Lipped Batfish, don’t you think? But I did get fuller lips. Then they turned red, cracked, and started itching.Rosy Lipped Batfish

Angelina

 

Before that happened, however, I looked in the mirror. I smiled, I frowned, I puckered into a kiss. And ya know what? I felt like an impostor. Full lips, I discovered, do not suit me. They were as out of place as a snow blower in Death Valley. Or maybe a vegetarian in a steak house. I can’t decide.

What I discovered from my mango fiasco is that I’ll never have lip-plumping injections because who knows what or who I’d look like? You know what they say:

the devil you know

Sure, I wish I had lips. I’d also like to have a better memory and sharper eyesight. But we’re given what we’re given. And truth be told, although it can be a bit scary to look in the mirror these days, this devil has grown accustomed to her face.

My trick? Just don’t look too long or too hard. And keep the lights dim. That’s a biggie.

11 thoughts on “Living Life Lip-less

  1. I love you just the way you are! It makes you, you!! But we can have fun penciling in some colored lip lines on your face and then you can fill in the blank part, haha!!👄😂👄😘

  2. Hahaha. This one kracked me up. What is the Portuguese family name? I did not know that. Williams kind of hides that.

  3. Sara sampaio has fake lips , if you are at least a little smart you can she that the muscles around her lips are destroyed plus Angelina had no upper lip soo she added injections :/ don’t judge yourself based on fake people who are famous for their family connections because this is what celebrities are. If you were famous , people who know you would never recognize you from your photos and you would be 1oo% fine with your “no-lips”

  4. What a great post! I feel the same way. Now , at my advanced age of 68 the wee lips I do have are so wrinkly that if I put lipstick on them, it just spreads down through the wrinkles and………oh well.

    • Kathey, I’m so sorry this comment is so late getting to you. I didn’t see your comment until recently, for some unknown reason. Anyway, I totally know what you’re talking about with the lipstick, which is why I rarely wear it!

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